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We’ve been working through some of the Practical Suggestions this week as we’ve cleaned out the kids’ closets in preparation for cooler weather. In accordance with “Caring for Others” and “What do we have extra?”... [READ MORE]
This blogging adventure may be best started with a confession . . . I am not very up on modern technology. In truth, I had to research exactly what a blog is and came away relieved to find that it can be like an... [READ MORE]
It’s ironic how I seem to be attracted to lessons that perhaps I need as much as the kids do. Just last week, I raised my voice in frustration when Ben calmly looked at me and said, “Mommy, you need to be using self-... [READ MORE]
We learned an important lesson this week . . . it might be better to build a self-control poster featuring positive behaviours rather than negative. Why? The kids love moving their arrows, and they’ll find any reason to... [READ MORE]
I so appreciate the fact that Kids of Integrity doesn’t have any kind of specific timeline stamped on its lessons. We’ve tried devotionals meant to be done each day. I always felt guilty if we missed a day . . . then we... [READ MORE]
Well, we didn’t exactly end our Self-Control lesson with a bang. I wanted to use the object lesson of the shaken-up pop as our final illustration, but for some strange reason, the soda didn’t spray out like it was... [READ MORE]
When we first had a look at the whole list of 16 Kids of Integrity lessons, we mentally placed Gentleness near the bottom of our priority list. After all, our kids are pretty sweet, right? Then Benjamin became the... [READ MORE]
Last night before bedtime, Rob asked the kids if they would like a “treat.” In our house, that usually means something special, sweet and not necessarily healthy. He meant to say “snack” and was planning to offer fruit... [READ MORE]
Inspired by one of the practical suggestions on the Gentleness lesson, we went to the humane society (instead of a petting zoo). Our city has a beautiful facility where you can go into various rooms and play with cats... [READ MORE]
Now that we’ve gained a little experience using the Kids of Integrity materials, a few thoughts have been floating around in my head. I would love to hear if anyone else out there has been thinking the same things.Kids... [READ MORE]
Well, we finally finished our 100-square Gentleness Quilt and, as promised, went bowling and had ice cream sundaes to mark the event. Kids of Integrity is helping us realize we must learn to rejoice over any and all... [READ MORE]
Even though our week seemed kind of disjointed, and it didn’t feel like we took complete advantage of what we could have done for “Random Acts of Kindness,” we know this can (and should) be an ongoing effort long after... [READ MORE]
I don’t know about you, but we often find that our kids simply do not respond appropriately to compliments. Though we’ve coached and coached, they usually look like they’re ignoring the admiring remark or they turn... [READ MORE]
Now that we’re more than halfway through September, you’d think life would be settling into more of a routine. Unfortunately, our household still feels somewhat out of sorts. Ben and Jess seem to be getting a little... [READ MORE]
I am overwhelmed, exhausted and already so far behind on everything. Oh, the joys of the start of school! We were warned by other parents that when Benjamin entered the full days of Grade One and Jessica started half-... [READ MORE]
It had never occurred to Rob and me that the term “giving back to God” didn’t make any sense to our kids. We had started using the phrase around them but hadn’t given any thought as to how it sounded to four- and... [READ MORE]
For two weeks now, we’ve been trying to start the Acceptance lesson, but “stuff” just kept cropping up unexpectedly. Usually it’s just me being unprepared that stalls us, but this time I was ready ages ago. We... [READ MORE]
Question: What do squash, green pancake batter, and Asian and Polish food have in common? Answer: An initial “Yuck!” response from my kids.It was a week of culinary testing in our household. We dove into the... [READ MORE]
Two posts ago ("Acceptance blues"), I lamented the static nature of the family tree suggestion for the Kids' Corner activity. At the time, I expected to breeze through this lesson because there wasn’t a project my... [READ MORE]
This post should have been written three weeks ago (you know an excuse is coming, don’t you?). Well, our family’s “birthday season” begins right after the Christmas season – two are in the first week of January. We go... [READ MORE]
We started on the Respect lesson with a bang last week! One of the object lessons involves becoming “Respect Detectives.” The original suggestion has the kids looking for disrespectful actions. We added a positive... [READ MORE]
Squeals of delight rang through the house. “This is like a treasure hunt!” crowed Jessica. “I can’t find any!” cried Benjamin. Both kids raced from room to room, searching behind doors and under furniture. No, we... [READ MORE]
There she stood in the doorway of her bedroom, in all her four-year-old glory. Her tights had wide, horizontal, rainbow-coloured stripes. Her skirt (pushed down below her kindergarten belly . . . the way she likes to... [READ MORE]
Don’t ask me how we managed to do it, but we were UNABLE to grow any mould on our bread! Seriously, are there any scientist-type people out there who can explain that? We kept it warm. We made sure it was moist. Then we... [READ MORE]
The other day, Jessica came home all excited about a painting
they had been doing at kindergarten. I wasn’t exactly happy as I caught sight
of the wide brown paint stripes now adorning her brand new shirt! But then I... [READ MORE]
Spring weather typically puts a bounce in my step and seems
to make life purr. Everything is lighter . . . easier. Goodbye, bulky winter
wear, hello windbreakers and rubber boots! Mr. Sun’s newfound warmth is banishing... [READ MORE]
I had a tough choice to make the other day. I could clean
the interior of my car (hadn’t had a vacuum and wipe-down all winter) or I
could read over the Kids of Integrity
Forgiveness lesson so we
could start it after... [READ MORE]
There’s a rule in our house that if anyone
being tickled says, “Stop,” the tickler must
quit immediately. (Grandpa has had to be completely re-trained in this matter!)
We have labelled it an essential form of respect,... [READ MORE]
Ever since Jessica was a baby, I’ve taken kickboxing
classes. I’ve long wanted the kids to see my instructor and friends in action, so
I jumped at the opportunity to work through “Persevering
in Practice.” One evening,... [READ MORE]
Until my early 30s, “forgive” was not a common term in my
vocabulary. I was quite capable of staying mad at people, situations . . . anything
that ticked me off. I often felt the need to be justified, vindicated. Then I... [READ MORE]
Sorry for the long absence. It’s been a whale of a month. The
past 27 days have held more illness for our family than we’ve collectively seen
in years. A nasty respiratory virus hit us all, spinning off a host of... [READ MORE]
I was looking through the latest new lessons for KOI,
relishing the thought of digging into something totally fresh, when a friend
said, “Why don’t you let your kids pick the next topic? Mine always love doing
that.”... [READ MORE]
It never ceases to amaze us how the Kids of Integrity lessons inject critical vocabulary into the lives
of our kids. We just got back from summer holidays and our week was totally peppered with the word
“perseverance... [READ MORE]
During our week of holidays, we were extremely blessed to
have been offered the use of a friend’s condo. She happened to be away on
vacation; hence, we had the entire place to ourselves. A lovely three-bedroom unit
with... [READ MORE]
As we come to the end of our lesson on Perseverance, I find myself
reflecting on my own struggle to persevere with personal daily prayer time. Questions
and thoughts buzz in my head like pesky horseflies . . .
Why is... [READ MORE]
Okay, confession time. The fridge chart that I’d hoped would
keep me on track with personal devotional times was an utter flop. For the first week, I had some success. After that, the
rows of unchecked boxes stared back... [READ MORE]
It was high time we finished off our Perseverance lesson, so I
purchased a 750-piece puzzle at a garage sale. The image of puppies in paint
cans was attractive to our mini problem solvers, though it had way more pieces... [READ MORE]
A few months ago, I was selling an item
online and the woman who came to pick it up had a great personalized license
plate on her car: AOKASIS (A-OK as is). The kids were curious and asked me what
it meant. I explained... [READ MORE]
The same night I wrote our first Contentedness post, I went
to bed with a nagging thought in the back of my head: “Hypocrite.” The words I wrote
in my last blog post may have made me sound like a cheery, perfectly-... [READ MORE]
Ben and Jess couldn’t quite figure out what
was going on at dinner the other day when Rob and I put a glop of spaghetti on
each of their plates but removed their forks and put the sauce out of reach. We
told them they... [READ MORE]
While we’re having a blast doing the Contentedness lesson
(especially at this time of year), we also didn’t want to miss out on the new
Christmas lesson that was just posted. So we’re taking a wee break to do
the... [READ MORE]
Well, the kids had a hoot sewing their
mittens and deciding which character trait fit with which fleece. They’re quite
proud of their handiwork, and rightfully so.
If you’re also working on the Christmas
lesson, let... [READ MORE]
CAUTION: It is advisable to sit down in
cushioned surroundings while playing this game. There is a strong possibility
you may fall over when you hear some of your children’s questions and answers.
When we chose this... [READ MORE]
Recently, Rob and the kids came down with
some kind of nasty cough and fever bug. So on Saturday, we decided to do
“church at home” the following morning. I was wiped from being up with crazy
coughers all week, so I... [READ MORE]
Rob and I had a feeling our results for the
“Rich
Man – Poor Man” exercise might be atypical for two reasons: our kids don’t
get a lot of screen time (no TV at all, occasional videos and computer time),
and do get a lot... [READ MORE]
Well, we’ve wrapped up our Contentedness series. It
was the perfect lesson to straddle the holiday season and use in tandem with
the Christmas lesson. I do believe our family experienced fewer “gimme-gimmes”
and more “... [READ MORE]
The Attentiveness lesson never
really caught my eye before, but recently we’ve been having those kinds of issues
with our boy. I don’t know what’s up with Ben, but his brain is SO far away
most days! Honestly, he would... [READ MORE]
The Kids’
Corner activity in the Attentiveness
lesson was a huge hit with our two creature lovers. Making animal ear hats
proved quick, easy and more popular than I thought. At first I wondered if Ben,
who is now eight... [READ MORE]
It was a sunny Wednesday afternoon. I had
picked up Benjamin and Jessica from school, prepared a snack and was about to
get them started on homework. Without warning I felt a stab in the left side of
my back. I figured... [READ MORE]
In the past two months, we’ve had problems
with Benjamin sometimes being quite mean to his younger sister. We’ve witnessed
cutting comments, little physical assertions and callous selfishness. When
confronted, Ben turns... [READ MORE]